Self-confidence ....

Self-confidence is a sense of the value of the person himself among those around him Vttorgom this trust every movement of his movements and cantonments and act naturally, without human concern or fear Vtserfath is governed by and no other .... Is derived from the same nothing to do with persons around him and the opposite is the lack of trust that makes a person act like an observer who moves around him and becomes his actions and his views, but in some neighborhoods, contrary to its nature and becomes his ally, the first concern at each meeting or decision.

And self-confidence is something, of course, acquired from the environment that surrounds us and which we grew up with and can not breed with any person.
As you know, we hear of many complaints from people who lack self-confidence and repeating this phrase until I took her share of them!
The first point which must identify them are the reasons for the lack of self-confidence .... We treat all to put our hands on the position of the disease .... Then we proceed to the appropriate treatment for him.
There are many reasons including the following:
1 - dramatize things and situations so that you feel around you focus on your weaknesses and watching every move you make is a natural.
2 - fear and anxiety that made you act contrary to the experience usually do not even blame others or contempt.
3 - your feeling of human being is weak and can not offer anything in front of others but not yourself feel that something distinguishes them dearly, and to suffer from this destructive thinking man sees himself as vile and extravagant in this thinking to take hold of this idea in his mind and become a reality, unfortunately.

The third and final point is the most serious problem because they destroy you and destroy all the energy creativity you have you first have to stop despising yourself and refining it with some words that destroy your character such as "I'm stupid" or "I failed" or "I am weak," These words constitute a serious danger to self and crashing from where the person does not feel it .. You have to know my brother / sister that these statements are only shovels and demolition of the moment you stop using it to destroy Nvsik and crashing inside and cripple capabilities that persisted on your thinking.
Also do not forget my brother / sister to identify the source of this problem and a sense of inferiority ....
There are many reasons, including my brother can identify the source of this problem in preparation for the Elimination of:
1 - This may be a sensation is due to the failure to study or work and receive some sharp criticism from the parents or the Director is harmless Ouajjarh.2 - an accident is acute Kalaharaj or reprimand in front of others or the comparison between you and your peers and play down your abilities and talents.3 - friends or family look at the negative yourself and not rely on you for the important things ... Or not to give you the opportunity to prove yourself.
In short these are some of the causes of low self-esteem after my brother and must review and determine what instructions, including .... You then it is not honest with yourself Kabahh with restraint and not Igdhae party or ignoring the problem of self Baiham they do not suffer from the problem ... Valtherb does not solve the problems rather than inflame the fire .... And yourself is yourself .... And you account for it before God, my brother is not neglected by the Muslim ...
The next step after identifying the source of the problem Start brother search for a solution and try to find a medicine for every disease ...
Sit down with yourself and trust that you are able Sarhaa of improvement day after day .... You have to stop thinking reduces all of your business ... You should know that you did not create a product people in vain .... When God created us did not create us in vain .... You are very goal and you must play in this life as long as I live on the face of the earth .... God Almighty when he addressed the faithful in the Holy Quran did not for a believer without the other is no difference between Muslim without the other because all humans are equal and brother Karim preferred to one on one ... except by piety It is enough to know that you are Muslim, this is the largest Emezk for millions of people steeped in their own liking and Dilalathm.
"The first point," which must be proud of is being a human being committed violated those who follow Satan and violated every brilliant behind the enemies of Islam are leaving the mind behind his back.
"The second point," which must be a reason to strengthen your self-confidence is that the sense of injustice and contempt by others, whether your parents or your relatives or your colleagues will not change in the situation nothing, but may increase in the destruction of your self-confidence you need to get rid of this thinking naïve and replace it with fine him, try replace the bad words that I used to launch yourself to the words of encouragement increase your strength and improve Nvsik and increase comfort ....
You must convince yourself that you are repeating my brother with a strong human being and should be familiar with your abilities inherent in yourself .... And that you have high confidence in the day and you'll be graduating.
"Third," is you are satisfied and you think you are really full to anybody with a high confidence as they take root in your mind when they are generated and respond to your actions ... Educated, the negative thoughts in your mind become a negative person .... The positive thoughts will become educated man certainly has a positive independent entity capable of forming a personal characteristic of pride among the others.
Must work to love yourself and not hatred or compromised .... And not to think about the past or retrieval disturbing events over and Tuaha time you should not try to retrieve anything annoying but try to be happy yourself and be happy with yourself because you are a successful human being has its disadvantages, and his own abilities.
And you have to tolerate from a mistake in your right or Antkdk newly or old and do not be to the point slender sense of hatred or intimidation to cope with things from the womb of God and say criticizes a man dedicated to my faults .... Not everyone is Antkdk nature of this fallacy would ever hate you brother Beware of them all caution because this way of thinking leads to a feeling of inferiority and that all of the criticism directed to me is the enemy of me ... No .... Do not feel yourself that everything that others say is not necessarily right .... No .... You first have to make this thing does not affect you, but accepted by the other party and I thank him and proved him wrong that he was wrong .... What other people do not make a negative impact on Nvsik because you know that the opinions and judgments vary from person to person, it did not like my disposal that will have to find someone agrees it .... But failed in this work will not fail in the other .... And the words of human beings is not a house to believe in him and believe him and make him break.
As we have said my brother .... Do not give yourself room for comparison between yourself and the others never be careful from this point because it is his intention to destroy all that ..... At least I do not have what may the gift of God to so and so ... But remember that everyone of us what sets it apart from the other and that there is no perfect man ... It must also be aware that God has something HBC and may God deprived him of someone else ..... Must live with yourself as a human being cream case if millions of people, including a site you do not think you are nothing in this universe, but you are a creature God has honored and please to many of his creation.
The important point here is not to focus on your abilities and skills of self and hobbies and visibility in front of others and pride in yourself (and my brother does not mean boast vanity) There is a difference between them .... Thought to do everything you like and want to not go overboard in their criticism and think of others ... Do not care does not give sizes larger than the others ... You should satisfy yourself after the satisfaction of God ... So long as you do what my brother did not forbid God Vthag you going in the straight path does not pay attention to others.
That people who suffer from loss of confidence in themselves, they lose their example, and in fact a good example that you should follow the lead of the right to follow the ..... We have in the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and his friends, God bless them a good example and great examples ... Brother, you can read these, studied and deepened by the impact and tracking .... Islamic figure to be strong and great confidence in themselves able to cope with difficult circumstances cruel.
And from the moment you have to remember all Hassanatk Msawik aim of all the sea and try not to know her way ..... Remember your successes and creations ..... And remember to avoid anything that would break your trust and Aahtmk Calfhl or weakness in yourself.
My brother gave yourself another opportunity to better life .... Accept the challenge .... Say it and to express your colleague ... Or friend .... "Sanavsk and Otfouk you, God willing," and never apologize for the competition no matter what and no matter how the failure of a previous pass by .... Avoid saying I am not qualified for this competition or that I am not skilled in this industry ... But trust in God Almighty and broke into and tried every confidence .... Then I guarantee you that you will succeed for sure.
Do you see what you find all the difficult routes opened to you .... Searched for everything that scares you and you will find that the fear was stormed has faded in the absence of him .....
Try to be an active person and you work and the different activities and the most obvious creations and never hide even if you encounter one of Annagada most certainly will find it encourages you and your business please him .... This base must be taken "not for the different tastes of Bart goods" do not listen to the complaint yourself Aahtmk and destroy all creativity to bear.
Start your day by reading the Qur'an and dhikr If you can every morning after morning prayers read Surat Yasin, it may then do a great influence on the soul and send peace and tranquility as in the rest of the verses.
Think of your schedule for the day ..... And what will come out of it back to yourself what benefit and vitality.
Event yourself and be her friend and good practice to talk to Soul is softened and reassure him and left him .... Do not deprive yourself of this right because you are more deserving people to hear and practice saying to yourself ..... Positive words that will build our confidence in ourselves and leads us to the more optimistic of a better life with the help of God Almighty.
At each Council tried to have you there and engaged in a dialogue and discussed again and again will get used and will then be easier to talk .... The convergence of the path yourself some of the difficulty in the beginning of it, but be careful to commend your determination of the first experiment, but Make it to climb a ladder and Ohadvk your objectives and you are the most prominent among those around you, it increases your self-confidence and promotes a feeling of the importance of your own self.
For others to help you enhance your self-confidence ..... The appearance of good fit enhances your self-confidence ..... Do not neglect yourself Vthof.